Member-only story

Happy Birthday Dad!

Writes By Tiffany
4 min readNov 21, 2024

Sending You Birthday Wishes Straight Up To Heaven

Photo of my dad, Tom Weston ❤️

Memories of childhood kick in strong today as I go down memory lane. I had a loving father who stood by my side every step of the way. Even though I spent some years without him close to me, it didn’t change a thing.

When I was 5 my parents divorced. My mom decided to move from Indiana to Arizona on a whim. That left me only seeing my dad over summer breaks. At age 11 I chose to move back permanently into my dad’s house again.

When I was away from him he called me before I went to bed and he’d tell me to go out on the porch and so would he at his house. We were 2,000 miles from each other. He’d say “Look up at the north star and so am I. It’s like we’re looking at each other.” — ❤️

That is something I’ll never forget!

If you can’t read all of this story, click here.

Being away from him never changed our connection. Our bond never stopped. He was a father to 4 girls and I was the baby. His pouty little girl. (Apparently I pouted a lot)

He was the best provider to his family. He cherished family more than anything in this world. He never missed a softball game, or a bowling tournament. He was there to cheer me on when no one else was.

The author made this story available to Medium members only.
If you’re new to Medium, create a new account to read this story on us.

Or, continue in mobile web

Already have an account? Sign in

Writes By Tiffany
Writes By Tiffany

Written by Writes By Tiffany

I enjoy writing articles and poetry about love, pain, healing, and mental health topics. Check out https://writesbytiffany.blogspot.com

Responses (23)

Write a response

Aeternum vale, Tiffany. Please consider my private note.

--

Grief is a part of life. It comes in and it rips you apart.

Tiffany I'm sorry that he isn't here to watch his guidance continue to shape as you evolve but I know he is watching. 💕

--

Such a loving tribute to your father. He must be proud of you in heaven. Happy Bbirthday to your dad

--