If you cant go to both, just pick one to go to. AND yes, the holidays can be a very stressful time but just do what ya can. We may not be able to buy for everyone we wish we could buy for. But spending time with loved ones is always most important. Lets think of some cheap meals to throw together for the potluck: green bean casserole is cheap and easy to make. You could do sloppy Joe in a crock pot and use ground turkey instead of hamburger. Its healthier and its way cheaper. This is stuff you can get at aldis too. You could do a bean dip. Refried beans, shredded cheese, a can of black olives n jalapeños make it look pretty, stick it in the oven for a few minutes n buy a bag of tortilla chips. All of these under $10
You got this my little grinch! 😂